Klein Forest AVID Senior Celebration
May 30, 2012
I am reminded of a speech in Shakespeare’s play Hamlet. In the play, one of the characters, Polonius, is speaking to his son Laertes, who is about to go on a trip to France. Polonius is an advisor to the king, and is known for long-winded speeches. Polonius has quite a bit of of advice for the young Laertes, and it reminded me of the typical graduation speech. Here are a few examples:
- “The wind sits in the shoulder of your sail (in other words, you can do anything you want or the future is yours!)
- Give thy thoughts no tongue, Nor any unproportioned thought his act. (this means, know when to keep quite and not tell everyone what you’re thinking)
- Be thou familiar, but by no means vulgar. (Be friendly, but not rude)
- Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice (Listen more than you talk)
- Neither a borrower nor a lender be (pretty self-explanatory)
- Set your definition of Success
- Develop your Character What is Success?
To The General Community: For most people, being successful means being able to become an productive individual in society. A college or university education should prepare graduates to think and act for themselves, and to communicate those thoughts effectively to others. Graduates should be able to live well with others, and make a contribution to the communities in which they live: locally, nationally, and globally, and earn a living.
To The Academic Community: Students should be continually enrolled and pass their courses with “C”s or better, until they gain enough credits until they graduate or earn a certification.
To The Business Community: Graduates who are prepared to work in an increasingly complex, technologically-driven, and constantly changing global economy. Employers expect graduates to be able to apply the education they received in college to the “real-world.” Graduates should be knowledgeable and informed in their degree fields, possess critical thinking, analytical, research, and communication skills. They should be team-players, and work ethically.
Several years ago, basketball legend Michael Jordan made a commercial where he mentioned the statistics that marked his career. He didn’t talk about how many times he was named MVP, his All-Star Game appearances, or his scoring average. Instead, Jordan said
“I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”
What is character?
History is ‘for’ human self-knowledge. It is generally thought to be of importance to man that he should know himself: where knowing himself means knowing not his merely personal peculiarities, the things that distinguish him from other men, but his nature as man. Knowing yourself means knowing, first, what it is to be a man; secondly, knowing what it is to be the kind of man you are and nobody else is. Knowing yourself means knowing what you can do; and since nobody knows what he can do until he tries, the only clue to what man can do is what man has done. The value of history, then, is that it teaches us what man has done and thus what man is.Character is forged in the fires of adversity. But it is not who we are to an audience. It is who we are, not in front of our friends, but it is who we are when we are alone, when no one is watching. President “Teddy” Roosevelt said, “I care not what others think of what I do, but I care very much about what I think of what I do! That is character!” Character is how you handle defeat.
- Set Realistic Goals: Don’t set yourself up for failure, but don’t settle for good enough. You should be have pride in your efforts. Understand that You cannot please everyone. You have to make hard decisions. Sometimes you’ll make decisions that no one will like. Sometimes people will be hurt by your decisions, but you have to make decisions that will serve the greater good, that will be of the most benefit in the long run.
- And you have to understand that one of the most important, yet toughest decision you’ll have to make is to decide who you want to be, and then surround yourself with those who are going to help you get there and celebrate your accomplishments. Some people warn against the crab or crawfish mentality. When one tries to escape from a boiling pot, the others will pull him back down. Once told “don’t forget where you came from.” Some people interpret that to mean that you should not rise above your station in life, but what it really means is that you should not forget the hard work that got you where you are, and the people who made sacrifices to help you get there.

